“Conversations Worth Having.” by Jackie Stavros & Cheri Torres

Sometimes, it’s not what we say—it’s how we approach the conversation. In Conversations Worth Having by Jackie Stavros and Cheri Torres, I found a refreshing perspective on how our words can shape outcomes, whether in personal relationships, at work, or in leadership. The book centers on Appreciative Inquiry, a transformative method that shifts focus from fixing problems to amplifying what’s working well. What I love most is how the authors show that simple shifts in communication—asking thoughtful, possibility-driven questions—can create stronger connections, boost creativity, and lead to solutions that truly work for everyone involved. This book doesn’t just preach; it teaches through real-life examples and science-backed principles, even diving into fascinating research on how our physical and mental states impact communication.

One of my favorite takeaways? The idea of “tuning in.” The authors explain how cultivating self-awareness about our emotions and perceptions can completely change the tone and results of conversations. It’s a practice I’m already starting to incorporate in my day-to-day interactions. If you’ve ever struggled with communication—whether it’s navigating workplace dynamics or finding more meaningful ways to connect with loved ones—this book offers tools you can apply immediately. It’s a game-changer for building trust, generating innovative ideas, and envisioning a future that benefits everyone.

This is more than a book; it’s a guide to better living through better conversations. Let’s talk about what really matters.